Estate Planning Mistakes

Making mistakes in your estate planning can torpedo your efforts to protect your family after you die, warns a recent article from Kiplinger, “Common Estate Planning Mistakes.” Everyone benefits from a professionally-made comprehensive estate plan, a process for preparing your legal and financial affairs so assets and possessions are passed on after your death to the people or charities you want.

Not having an estate plan can create trouble for those you love. The biggest estate planning mistake of all is not having an estate plan. After that, there are several others.

Procrastination. Suppose you unexpectedly become incapacitated and don’t have an estate plan. In that case, your family will be left guessing what you would want your medical care to be. They may have to go to court to apply for guardianship so they can pay your bills and keep your household running. Everyone should have documents like a Medical Power of Attorney, a Statutory Durable Power of Attorney (for handing financial matters), a HIPAA Release Form and a Directive to Physicians (Living Will) in place so that you can be taken care of in accordance with your wishes during your incapacity.

Trying to make an estate plan on your own. Unless you’re an experienced estate planning attorney, there’s a lot you could leave out if you attempt a DIY estate plan. If there are serious enough errors, a court could declare your will invalid and it’s as if you never had a will in the first place. The laws of Texas (or the state in which you live) will be used to distribute your assets. It may not be what you had in mind.

Keeping estate planning documents in a safe or safe deposit box. Documents need to be where someone can get them in an emergency or after your passing. Safety deposit boxes often require a court order to be opened on the death of the owner. Make sure that a person you trust (preferably the one you named in your estate planning documents to handle things for you in the event of death or incapacity) knows where these documents are located.

Missing key documents.  Make sure your estate plan includes these documents:

  • Living Trust or Will —This document outlines your final wishes and instructions for distributing your assets and how you want your affairs managed after you die. If you decide on a living trust, you will also need a “pourover will” to transfer assets to your trust at death if you did not take care of this during your lifetime. The Living Trust or Will also names a trustee or an executor to oversee the instructions you leave in the in the document.
  • Beneficiary designations—Any account allowing for beneficiaries, including IRAs, pension plans, investment accounts and insurance policies, will pass directly to named beneficiaries. Be sure that these are up to date.
  • Medical Power of Attorney —Allows another person to make medical decisions for you if you become incapacitated.
  • Funeral instructions—Do you want a traditional burial? Cremation? Leave written instructions for your family outlining your wishes for a funeral or memorial service.

Not Providing for Digital assets. These include websites, cloud storage, social media accounts and cryptocurrency, to name a few. By assigning a digital fiduciary and sharing key information, you help heirs locate assets and avoid identity theft.

Failing to update your plan. Life happens and things change. Someone you’ve named to handle your affairs after you’re gone may be deceased or too sick for the job. Your estate plan needs to reflect these changes in your life and in your family. What you wanted ten years ago may not be what you need now.

Appointing the wrong person as executor or trustee. Don’t feel obligated to name someone as executor or trustee because you don’t want to hurt their feelings. It’s much more important to name an organized person who can get along with the beneficiaries, communicate with them, and keep them informed. It’s also important to name successors in case the first person you name is unable to take on this role. For your peace of mind (and theirs), you should talk with this person before appointing them to this critical role to make sure they are willing to take it on.

Reference: Kiplinger (Dec. 30, 2023) “Common Estate Planning Mistakes”

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Steps for End-of-Life Planning

Most people don’t consider anything about planning for incapacity or death to be joyful. However, if you consider estate planning documents as a way to share your wishes and make your departure easier for those you love, as well as a means to express your thoughts and feelings, it could make these tasks a little easier and establish a legacy for your loved ones. A recent article from The Washington Post, “6 joyful steps for end-of-life planning,” could help reframe how you think of estate planning.

From a practical standpoint, death and incapacity are complicated for loved ones. There is always an emotional toll which renders loved ones less capable than they typically would be in dealing with post-death tasks.  Preplanning through your estate plan will help ease their burden.

They will appreciate your preparing medical powers of attorney or similar documents which should be created when a person is healthy, and not when they are in a hospital bed. The same goes for funeral arrangements, which are costly. There are so many choices and decisions to make—do your loved ones even know what you want? Leaving instructions in an appointment for the disposition of remains and maybe even prepaying services will remove the burden for loved ones to know what you wanted and dealing with the expense of paying for it.

Digging through a loved one’s credit card bills, cellphone accounts, bank accounts and internet passwords is a big challenge in today’s digital world. It was far easier when there were stacks of paper for every account. Today’s fiduciaries need to have access to more information to avoid lost assets, avoid identity theft and prevent roadblocks to wrapping up your estate.

Here’s a checklist to help get your estate plan moving forward.

1 Estate Planning Notebook. The author of the article called this a crisis planning binder.  We actually give our clients one binder with all the estate planning documents to make it easier for loved ones. You should make additional copies, but keep originals in one place—and tell your fiduciaries where the originals and binder can be found.  You can also include information in the binder to facilitate gathering assets and administering your estate, such as information on bank accounts, contact information for professionals you’ve worked with, information on assets, debts, contracts, the above-referenced final internment instructions and more.

Please see Mary’s article here for more ideas on what to include in the binder:  https://galligan-law.com/not-a-little-black-book-but-a-big-blue-estate-planning-binder/

2 Have a medical power of attorney created while you are having your estate plan made. This tells your loved ones what you want in case of incapacity and end-of-life decisions and isn’t typically what people think about in an estate plan.  Appointing a person to act for you in these situations and communicating these wishes will greatly ease their burden.

3 Have an estate plan created with an experienced estate planning attorney. Without an estate plan, the laws of your state determine how your property is distributed.  Most people mistakenly assume that the law will quickly and easily let property pass to their loved ones, but that is often not the case, or worse, they make bad assumptions about which loved ones inherit.

Estate plans are also state-specific, so a local estate planning attorney is your best resource. Be wary of online documents—if they are deemed invalid, or even worse, valid but terrible, you will have greatly increased the cost, time and energy of your estate administration, and may still not get what you wanted.

4 Make a digital estate plan. No doubt you have more than one email account, shopping accounts with more than a few retailers, credit cards, car leases or loans, home mortgage payments, social media, cloud storage, gaming accounts and more. Without a complete and comprehensive list of all accounts, your executor won’t know what needs to be closed, where your personal documents or photos live or how to retrieve them.

5 Plan your Final Internment. This isn’t always easy for a person to do, but if you find it difficult, imagine how your loved ones will feel.  Even if you don’t prearrange, many states, Texas included, provide the power to name a person to execute your wishes for final internment and to describe those wishes.  This is often called an appointment for the disposition of remains. You’ll feel better knowing your wishes will be followed, whether it’s for a “green” funeral or a cremation, with a long period of mourning following your faith’s tradition or a short memorial service.

6 Write a letter of intent and any final farewells. This is an opportunity to share your thoughts with those you love, with healthcare providers and anyone else who matters to you, about healthcare decisions at end of life, or to convey your values, hopes and dreams for those you love.  This is similar to the “ethical will” and leaves the legacy of your values to your loved ones.

When these issues are complete, you’ll be surprised at the sense of relief you feel.

Reference: The Washington Post (Jan. 5, 2023) “6 joyful steps for end-of-life planning”

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How Do I Store Estate Planning Documents?

It’s a common series of events: an elderly parent is rushed to the hospital and once children are notified, the frantic search for the estate planning documents starts. It’s easily avoided with planning and communication, according to an article from The News-Enterprise titled “Give thought to storing your estate papers.” However, just because the solution is simple doesn’t mean most people address it.

As a general rule, estate planning documents should be kept together in a fire and waterproof container in a location known to and accessible by fiduciaries, and copies of some documents should be given to the fiduciaries in advance.

Most people think of bank safety deposit boxes for storage. However, it’s not a good location for several reasons. Individuals may not have access to the contents of the safe deposit box unless they are named on the account. Often a court process is necessary for permission to open a safety deposit box if no one is named on the account.

Even with their names on the account, emergencies don’t follow bankers’ hours and access may be difficult. Further, what if the Power of Attorney giving the person the ability to access the safe deposit box is inside the safe deposit box or the principal has died and the Will is in the box.   Bank officials are not likely to be willing to open the box to an unknown person and proof of that person’s authority is in the box.  This is like locking the key in the safe.

Even further, COVID and the economy have led many banks to close or not offer safety deposit boxes.  Banks don’t want to maintain as many brick and mortar locations, so that means safety deposit boxes have to go.

When you store estate planning documents, a well-organized binder of documents in a fire and waterproof container at home makes the most sense.

Certain documents should be given in advance to certain organizations or individuals.  For instance, health care documents, like a Medical Power of Attorney, Directive to Physicians (Living Will) and HIPAA authorizations, may be given to your agents, as well as to your primary care physician or to the medical facility if you go in for a procedure.  This way, agents have the necessary documentation should an emergency occur, and medical systems can add the documents to their file for you.  This way everyone (especially medical providers) are on the same page about your wishes and who will speak on your behalf.

Mary touched on other items that shouldn’t be kept in a safety deposit box in this article.  https://galligan-law.com/things-you-should-not-keep-in-your-safe-deposit-box/  

Financial Powers of Attorney should be given to each financial institution or agency in preparation for use, close in time to when you expect to need it.

This may feel onerous, however, imagine the same hours spent communicating with banks plus the immense stress if the need to use it is time sensitive. Banks often want to review POA’s in advance of their use before accepting them, and that may take several weeks.

If your estate plan includes a trust, you’ll want your trustees’ to have a copy when you are ready to give it to them, and the original can be kept safe with your documents.

Wills are treated differently than POA documents. Wills are usually kept at home and not filed anywhere until after death.

Also, with all documents, especially the Will, it is important to track and keep safe the originals.  You may sometimes be able to probate copies of Wills, but it’s better to keep the original secure and avoid the need to probate a copy.  This is less critical for other documents, but the same policy holds.

Having estate planning documents properly prepared by an experienced estate planning attorney is the first step. Step two is ensuring they are safely and properly stored, so they are ready for use when needed.

Reference: The Times-Enterprise (June 11, 2022) “Give thought to storing your estate papers”

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