Steps for End-of-Life Planning

Most people don’t consider anything about planning for incapacity or death to be joyful. However, if you consider estate planning documents as a way to share your wishes and make your departure easier for those you love, as well as a means to express your thoughts and feelings, it could make these tasks a little easier and establish a legacy for your loved ones. A recent article from The Washington Post, “6 joyful steps for end-of-life planning,” could help reframe how you think of estate planning.

From a practical standpoint, death and incapacity are complicated for loved ones. There is always an emotional toll which renders loved ones less capable than they typically would be in dealing with post-death tasks.  Preplanning through your estate plan will help ease their burden.

They will appreciate your preparing medical powers of attorney or similar documents which should be created when a person is healthy, and not when they are in a hospital bed. The same goes for funeral arrangements, which are costly. There are so many choices and decisions to make—do your loved ones even know what you want? Leaving instructions in an appointment for the disposition of remains and maybe even prepaying services will remove the burden for loved ones to know what you wanted and dealing with the expense of paying for it.

Digging through a loved one’s credit card bills, cellphone accounts, bank accounts and internet passwords is a big challenge in today’s digital world. It was far easier when there were stacks of paper for every account. Today’s fiduciaries need to have access to more information to avoid lost assets, avoid identity theft and prevent roadblocks to wrapping up your estate.

Here’s a checklist to help get your estate plan moving forward.

1 Estate Planning Notebook. The author of the article called this a crisis planning binder.  We actually give our clients one binder with all the estate planning documents to make it easier for loved ones. You should make additional copies, but keep originals in one place—and tell your fiduciaries where the originals and binder can be found.  You can also include information in the binder to facilitate gathering assets and administering your estate, such as information on bank accounts, contact information for professionals you’ve worked with, information on assets, debts, contracts, the above-referenced final internment instructions and more.

Please see Mary’s article here for more ideas on what to include in the binder:  https://galligan-law.com/not-a-little-black-book-but-a-big-blue-estate-planning-binder/

2 Have a medical power of attorney created while you are having your estate plan made. This tells your loved ones what you want in case of incapacity and end-of-life decisions and isn’t typically what people think about in an estate plan.  Appointing a person to act for you in these situations and communicating these wishes will greatly ease their burden.

3 Have an estate plan created with an experienced estate planning attorney. Without an estate plan, the laws of your state determine how your property is distributed.  Most people mistakenly assume that the law will quickly and easily let property pass to their loved ones, but that is often not the case, or worse, they make bad assumptions about which loved ones inherit.

Estate plans are also state-specific, so a local estate planning attorney is your best resource. Be wary of online documents—if they are deemed invalid, or even worse, valid but terrible, you will have greatly increased the cost, time and energy of your estate administration, and may still not get what you wanted.

4 Make a digital estate plan. No doubt you have more than one email account, shopping accounts with more than a few retailers, credit cards, car leases or loans, home mortgage payments, social media, cloud storage, gaming accounts and more. Without a complete and comprehensive list of all accounts, your executor won’t know what needs to be closed, where your personal documents or photos live or how to retrieve them.

5 Plan your Final Internment. This isn’t always easy for a person to do, but if you find it difficult, imagine how your loved ones will feel.  Even if you don’t prearrange, many states, Texas included, provide the power to name a person to execute your wishes for final internment and to describe those wishes.  This is often called an appointment for the disposition of remains. You’ll feel better knowing your wishes will be followed, whether it’s for a “green” funeral or a cremation, with a long period of mourning following your faith’s tradition or a short memorial service.

6 Write a letter of intent and any final farewells. This is an opportunity to share your thoughts with those you love, with healthcare providers and anyone else who matters to you, about healthcare decisions at end of life, or to convey your values, hopes and dreams for those you love.  This is similar to the “ethical will” and leaves the legacy of your values to your loved ones.

When these issues are complete, you’ll be surprised at the sense of relief you feel.

Reference: The Washington Post (Jan. 5, 2023) “6 joyful steps for end-of-life planning”

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Top 10 Success Tips for Estate Planning

Unless you’ve done the planning, assets may not be distributed according to your wishes and loved ones may not be taken care of after your death. These are just two reasons to make sure you have an estate plan, according to the recent article titled “Estate Planning 101: 10 Tips for Success” from the Maryland Reporter.

There are several other key tips for estate planning for you to consider, here are 10 of them:

Gather Asset Information.  This should include all your property, real estate, liquid assets, investments and personal possessions, and not just assets you think your Will will control, gather it all.  With this list, consider what you would like to happen to each item after your death. If you have many assets, this process will take longer—consider this a good thing. Don’t neglect digital assets. The goal of a careful detailed list is to enable your fiduciaries to quickly identify, gather and ultimately distribute your assets.

One more key thing, put this list in a place that’s accessible.  Don’t assume technology will make that possible as an era of passwords and high security, although great in most contexts, makes accessibility difficult for your family.  Instead, consider sharing information with them in advance so they are prepared to deal with this.

Meet with an estate planning attorney to create wills and/or trusts. These documents dictate how your assets are distributed after your death. Without them, the laws of your state may be used to distribute assets. You also want to pick the person whose job it is to wind-up your affairs, and these documents name the person responsible for carrying out your instructions.  If you already have estate planning documents, you should have them reviewed from time to time as clients sometimes out grow their estate plans, or have better options on how to accomplish their goals.

Anecdotally, I participate in estate-related study groups, message boards and other groups in which lawyers workshop estate problem.  The hardest cases to figure out and the hardest cases to get a satisfactory conclusion for are very typically cases where no estate planning was done.

If you don’t have an estate plan and want ideas on how to start the process, see this article:  https://galligan-law.com/how-to-begin-the-estate-planning-process/

Guardians for minors, the person who will raise your minor children if you should pass.  You can nominate who will serve as their guardians.

Beneficiaries named?  Now, very frequently people tell me in consultations that they don’t need an estate plan, because they have beneficiaries named on all of their assets. That is virtually never true, however, for this list’s purposes, I say it is worth reviewing which assets should name beneficiaries (e.g. life insurance or retirement funds) and confirm they match what you want.

One of the difficulties with beneficiary designations is that they are like old estate plans, people set them, and then never change them.  I’ve seen ex-spouses left on them, mistakes like naming only one child to receive everything because they will “do the right thing,” not having contingencies if the named person predeceased, and so on. They also write their own rules on contingencies.  So, if you leave your IRA to 3 named children, but one of them is deceased, their portion may go to their siblings, or maybe their children, or even possibly your estate.  The answer lies in the plan documents, so it is important to consider them in your estate plan.

Also, clients may have excellent wills that address all form of concerns.  But, then names one child as beneficiary of their assets.  That typically means the will has to be probated (did you have a beneficiary on your house?), but zero cash to fund it.  That is not an enviable position for the executor.  Plus, if the will establishes trusts, plans for minors or incapacitated beneficiaries, or any of the many other problems you can proactively plan for, but the asset goes directly to a person instead, all of those protections and solutions were circumvented.  So, speak with your estate planning attorney to ensure the beneficiary designations work with your estate plan.

Make your wishes crystal clear. Legal documents are often challenged if they are not prepared by an experienced estate planning attorney or if they are vaguely worded. You want to be sure there are no ambiguities in your will or trust documents. Consider the use of “if, then” statements. For example, “If my husband predeceases me, then I leave my house to my children.”  This is especially true in contingencies, which I’ve found people typically haven’t considered.

Trusts may be more important than you think in estate planning. Trusts allow you to take assets out of your probate estate and have these assets managed by a trustee of your choice, who distributes assets directly to beneficiaries. You don’t have to have millions to benefit from a trust.  I’ve written extensively about the benefits of trusts, so you can find several articles elsewhere on that topic.

List your debts. This is not as much fun as listing assets, but still important for your executor and heirs. Mortgage payments, car payments, credit cards and personal loans are to be paid first out of estate accounts before funds can be distributed to beneficiaries. Having this information will make your executor’s tasks easier.

Plan for digital assets. If you want your social media accounts to be deleted or emails available to a designated person after you die, you’ll need to start with a list of the accounts, usernames, passwords, whether the platform allows you to designate another person to have access to your accounts and how you want your digital assets handled after death. This plan should be in place in case of incapacity as well.

Plan for Incapacity.  All too often, clients only think of estate planning in the context of their passing.  That is of course part of it, but sometimes it is even more critical to consider incapacity.  What happens with your assets if your health doesn’t permit you to handle your own finances?  Who would speak for you?  Do you want them to do whatever they want, or do you want to give them direction?  This is extremely important as it directly affects your well-being as this person will pay for your daily needs and medical expenses.

Plan for Long Term Care. The Department of Health and Human Services estimates that about 70% of Americans will need some type of long-term care during their lifetimes. Some options are private LTC insurance, government programs and self-funding.

The more planning done in advance, the more likely your loved ones will know what to do if you become incapacitated and know what you wanted when you die.

Resource: Maryland Reporter (Sep. 27, 2022) “Estate Planning 101: 10 Tips for Success”

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